This site is dedicated to the eternal quest for individual enlightenment. These posts are designed to provoke and solicit an alternative paradigm of thought, spirit, and enrichment of everyday life. From thought provoking quotes, lyrics and general babble, I hope to create a forum of open exchange, friendly debate, and passionate recourse to all that contributes to a happier, healthier and more philosophical reflection of cultural and spiritual reality and relativity.

I plan to add corners for poetry, music, short stories, essays and other artistic contributions to this blog. I promise zero censorship, open forum discussion and feedback, and an entertaining ride. If it's not bullshit for you... then it won't be for me either. I want to make this like nothing else found on the web (or anywhere else for that matter), so I can guarantee we're going to have some fun on this rollercoaster. So strap in (or don't), and prepare for the plunge!

CDM
December 10, 2009
Fort Myers, FL

Friday, December 11, 2009

About the host

I grew up in Richmond, VA. I am the eldest of three siblings. My sister Lana lives in Eagle valley Colorado, and my brother Jeff lives in a rural area outside of Richmond (where we grew up). I have a BA in Economics from East Carolina University in Greenville, NC where I was one of the founding fathers of the Epsilon Mu Charter of Pi Kappa Alpha (Pika or Pike) social fraternity. I have authored several publications, including intellectual properties research directories in such fields as Environmental Air Waste Management, Biotechnology, Advanced Engineering Materials, Optoelectronics and Semiconductors. I have also written several marketing books and workshops, countless essays, articles and marketing/advertising copywriting, several short stories, poetry, personal biographies, and am currently outlining my first novel. As a naturalist with a passionate environmental agenda, I love the outdoors and enjoy camping, hiking, nature walks, SCUBA diving and I fly small general aviation airplanes. I also a semi-professional photographer, having done a lot of work with modeling portfolios, nature and architectural photography... and yes, I have even shot a few weddings and parties as well. I love both the mountains and the ocean, and am looking for the perfect spot on our Mother Earth where I can enjoy views of both simultaneously. I believe that San Fransisco would be the perfect spot for that (among its many other amazing landmarks). I am a History buff as well, and am fascinated with Mayan, Egyptian, and the U.S. Civil War in particular. Music is particularly spiritual for me. My taste would be defined as diverse, yet particular. I'm a major Dave Matthews Band fan along with U2, Indecision, Coldplay, Phish, The Grateful Dead, and R.E.M. I also have an insatiable appetite for great Jazz, Reggae and Classical. Although my politics are moderate, I'm a tree hugging, granola crunching hippie when it comes to animal rights and environmental legislation. I enjoy good movies and even better books. I'm a big college football fan although I practically grew up on a tennis court and a baseball field. Nothing is more relaxing to me than listening to the rolling waves of the ocean, the summer night cicadas, and a breeze blowing through a pine forrest. I love candles and incense and watching thunderstorms moving inland from the Gulf of Mexico. The Southwest Florida sunsets are among the most beautiful in the world, and (lately at least) I try to catch as many of them as I can. I have a deep compassion for life and everything living. I'm a big time animal lover who cannot stomach ANY form of cruelty and/or neglect of all of God's wonders of life. I am 5'11" with an athletically slim physique. I am an extremely honest person, and an unconditionally loyal friend. I love intelligent and philosophical conversations, and I'm just intelligent to know that I have far more questions about life and the universe we live in than answers. My head is filled with a lot of useless trivia and factoids, though I am an expert in nothing. I love with reckless abandon, and consider myself a hopeless romantic. I'm one who truly enjoys spending time with others, but cherish my privacy and 'me' time as well. I neither thrive or despise attention, though I am a rather shy observationist (if that's even a word). I have a dry and witty sense of humor, and greatly appreciate that rarely found gift in others. I am generous to a fault, and tend to put the needs of others before my own. I am currently separated from a wonderfully amazing and beautiful European lady who is and quite possibly always will be my very best friend, regardless of the ultimate outcome of our marriage. We have been married close to four years and don't have any children. She will always have a very special place in my heart. I truly believe that we are capable of manifesting anything and everything we could ever dream of into our lives, and I also believe that every day is a new opportunity to re-invent ourselves. The reactive mind is a powerful source of thought, and can often be our worst adversary. Proactive thinking is the key to manifesting and bringing your dreams and goals to a happy fruition, and for me, it is as simple as training our minds to operate in that manner. It took a lot of personal trauma and pain to stumble upon that realization, but it HAS arrived in my life... and not a minute too early. It is my intention to utilize this blog to unveil many of the things I have learned and personally experienced, so that I might discuss and share with you many of the techniques that can be utilized to 'make lemonade' when life calls upon us to do so. I'm excited about this forum. I know that many wonderful discussions will reveal personal insights that anyone can successfully implement into their 'life strategy' and prove that we all have the ability to be who we really want to be... and to do what we really want to do... and to have what we really really really want to have present in our lives to elevate us all to a higher level of understanding of what happiness and enlightenment truly mean.

3 comments:

  1. I look forward to your future articles, words of wisdom and sharing thoughts with fellow Bloggers to be able to all achieve our most ulitimate goals & dreams through discussions.

    Diane~
    dianesdiamond.com

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  2. Reading this blog puts a smile on my face because it is one of the many ways that the tragic loss of my big brother has made a positive (yes, a positive) impact on someone's life and I'm glad this time, it's your life. Hope you are doing well Chuck. Love you.

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  3. Thanks for the kind words Shannon. I miss Scott like I never thought I could. It seems like every day something comes along that I want to pick up the phone and share with him. He was such a big part of my life, and there is an enormously empty and lonely hole in my heart and in my life since he left us.

    I find myself laughing and crying at the same time sometimes... thinking of the many cherished memories of the crazy things we shared and did together. With the loss of my parents, and now Scott, I feel like the whole world has changed. He was my best friend for almost my whole life, and with most of my other friends scattered about, learning to feel connected to the world again has been very difficult this year (especially). I have lost a big part of myself with Scott's passing, and sometimes it is very hard to keep my head up and truly get behind the ultimate theme of my blog and its quest for personal enlightenment.

    You have always been like a little sister to me Shannon. I've known you since you were in diapers and I love you and your entire family. Your mom took my face in her hands and told me that I was like a son to her after Scott's funeral service... and I will never forget how that made me feel. I miss you all very badly, especially now that the holidays are upon us, and I literally have no one to share them with.

    I hope you, Matt and your family have a wonderful holiday season. I hear they are getting a lot of snow in Richmond and its spoda pile up to 14 inches or so. Perfect timing huh? Merry Christmas Shannon. Light a Christmas candle for me, as I will do for all of you.

    As Ever,
    Chuck

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